Weak little boys

When a man puts down your successes, that is a clear sign he doesn’t feel good enough.  When he tells you he heard about something, that only makes you feel worse about yourself, this too is a sign that he is feeling inadequate.  In fact, it is safe to say that a guy who puts up walls and uses words as an attempt to put someone down, is a man who lacks his own sense of security; his own sense of happiness.

Done are the days where others words and judgments should bring us down to the sad level in which they habituate.  What a great way to see your stength and self growth when you are unfortunitely in the presence of this individual.

When you date a good guy, one who supports you and loves you and is your biggest fan, you learn just how one is meant to treat you; what you’re supposed to put up with and what you should avoid at all costs.  A man who respects you and cares about you down to the core, will innately do his best to protect you.  Protect you from words that may hurt.  To protect you from doubting yourself and your talents in any way.

If you have a man in your life – perhaps a boy you’re seeing – who attempts to make you not feel good enough, who calls you, your character or your work into question, run.  Don’t battle back.  Don’t defend.  See, that’s the beauty of being the great rock that you are.  You know well enough that this boy who doesn’t know any better isn’t worth yet a second more of your in-demand and precious time.

Peace out, yo.

– Jenny Jen

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4 Responses to Weak little boys

  1. mike says:

    Yeah, OR he’s absolutely serious and he is trying to be as unattractive to her as possible, to drive her away, or kill all hope in her as far as getting together. I know this because I do it. Probably the wrong place to say it on the blog of a “relationship expert” but some people, myself included, unless it’s a really good quality, available woman, who has taken months to prove her worthiness with honesty, and being there and taking my assholeness that I do dish out on the rare occasion with a smile and understanding, we’re honestly better off single, keeping all of our most eyes to ourselves without the burden of having g to clean my place, or wear nice clothes, to actually go out and be social, or refrain from smoki g cigarettes or pot, or to spend my money on anything other than myself. For company? For sex? I don’t know about you, but to me, those are stupid, petty reasons to get with anyone. I’m 40 year old man, with little drive when kt comes to women mind you but that just makes me a tougher nut to crack, and if I need to be an asshole to women I don’t like to drive them away I’ll do that. I’ll piss on her friends too if I need to read make a statement, and get them to help me drive her away.

  2. mike says:

    Also, it’s not always a game right? There is not always a “meaning” behind things right? Some people are straight up. If I don’t notice a woman, and she is obsessed with me, and she goes nuts and causes me all kinds of problems because I don’t notice her, I cant see it but she is really causing me and people I know problem, and she becomes successful, and then with that success continues to cause me problems or rub it in my face and then I see it…. not only is she a permanent write – off, I wi make sure that no matter how successful she is, we will never be together, but I’ll also rub her nose in the piss she did on my carpet, not because I feel inadequate, Im usually better and I know that, but because I hate her and to remind her of how inadequate she is.

  3. mike says:

    I’m single, but if I as a 40 year old man made a move on every girl and woman between the ages of 20 and 50 who is gaga over me, my eyes, my hair, my cute face, and will not leave me alone, I wouldn’t have a moments peace. The thing about me is I’m very adequate, I know it, Im confident, so I can take it or leave it, and I do not like to be pursued aggressively, to the point that it turns into hate when I don’t care, and it doesn’t matter to me who they are. They could be Taylor Swift. If you were a stupid little bitch in the pursuit, I will drown you in nothing and you will not ever be able to buy me with anything. If you don’t stop, or worse, get ugly over the rejection, I’ll piss on your leg. Not because I’m inadequate, but because I hate you and somebody needs to say no to you, because you’ve already gotten way more than you ever deserve considering your lack of homest to god tallent. And you, your family, and your friends are Yankee assholes. That simple.

  4. mike says:

    In short, I beat women off me with a stick, successful or otherwise, because I simply don’t like or want anything to do with them, or they’re condescending bitches.

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