Monthly Archives: March 2012

How to move on when your past is in the present

exes

I’m usually not for hanging out with exes.  I believe the past is in the past, take whatever lesson you learned from that experience, and move forward without them in your life, so as not to complicate the gift of …

Because you can

single girl

If you’re single and you know it after years of being tied down, a sense of freedom ingests through your pores, down to your bones, into your heart, your mind, your eyes.  A weight off your shoulders; a realization that …

Set ups

set ups

“I have the perfect guy for you!” a friend of yours exclaims, even though you’re not – what you would call – “looking” for a guy.  You smile and nod as you listen to her list off all the traits …

Text, Facebook, Tweet, Complete

messaging

To switch from text to Facebook message means you want to ensure he gets your message.  Means you want the semi-psychotic knowingness that no, his cell didn’t go missing, no he isn’t out of cell range, no his cell didn’t …

The logistics of a breakup

tug of war

Like the who gets custody of which restaurants, and tea shops, and friends, and the works.  Because let’s be real here, there is always one person who wins and one who loses when a breakup becomes them.  Because as chilled …